Difference between a homeless person and a hobo

Today, while traveling home from MD, we ran across a van load of strange looking folks at a gas station in VA. This group of guys and gals, were dressed in raggedy clothes, had shabby hair and they all had back packs.

hobos

As you can tell from the picture,  their clothes probably hadn’t been washed for days. I know you are probably thinking that I don’t look much better, but hey, you don’ wear a suit and tie on a 13 hour road trip so cut me some slack!

Even the three dogs had a special look about them. One had a bandanna.  When I saw this crew, I immediately knew a little about them.

I knew that they were modern day hobos.

I knew that if they had never actually rode on trains, they definitely dreamed of it!

I knew that they were living their own version of “freedom”.

I also knew that even though they appear to be “homeless”, they are worlds apart from other types of homeless people.

Let me explain. There are three basic types of homelessness.

Chronic homelessness– This is defined as long term or repeated homelessness. People who are chronically homeless are usually older, unemployed people who use homeless shelters as more of a permanent housing  instead of an emergency shelter. They often have mental illnesses and substance abuse issues.

Transitional homelessness– This is the largest group of homeless people. they, for many reasons, find themselves experiencing homelessness, but generally overcome their hardships. They are down for a time but do not intend to make it a way of life. Many times you could not pick these people out of a crowd. They look “normal”.

Episodic homelessness– This describes the people who shuffle in and out of homelessness. They are usually young, carefree, unemployed and they do a lot of traveling.

It’s hard to put people in a box, for sure. But if I had to, I would put this group that I met today into the last group, the episodically homeless.

You may be wondering why I am explaining all of this? Why do I sit around and categorize these poor folks?

The answer is simple. It is very important to know and understand the dynamics behind the scenes when you are ministering to someone.

These were fun people I met today. They received me well and even allowed me to take pictures. I had a blast cutting up with them all. The problem is that in order to finance this wild and crazy lifestyle of theirs, they will often hold cardboard signs at intersections and ask for a handout.

Look closer at the picture. What do you see? Do you see depressed, unhappy, poor people? No. Me either. What I see is young people who I believe are misguided. They are having fun, at least they think they are. Life is an adventure to them.

So what’s the problem? The problem is that they are muddying up the waters of compassion. They are presenting themselves to be “in need” when they truthfully are having the time of their life. And this makes it hard for the man or woman who is living on the streets, truly homeless and in need.

These young folks definitely need Jesus just like we all do. But they don’t need us to put them in a hotel room and feel sorry for them. They have chosen this life. They even brought their dogs!

I’m not saying we shouldn’t minister to them. What I am saying is that to view them with pity because of their circumstances is dead wrong.

The mentally ill woman who can’t think right needs our pity.

The veteran who battles PTSD and all kinds of demons, needs our pity.

The elderly man who has no family left and he has lost all due to illness and poverty needs our pity.

The single mom who recently lost her apartment and now sleeps in her car with her little girl needs our pity.

This crew here, they need a swift kick in the……. well, we won’t go there.

To be fair, I had fun with them today, they were fun to be around. But being fun doesn’t make you a productive member of society who impacts the world and helps the truly vulnerable. In this case, it makes it hard for the average person to understand why you are “in need”.

What do you think? Have you ever met someone like this and wondered about the story behind the story? Do you agree with my assessment?  Share in the comment section below.

Thanks-Travis

 

 

 

Comments

  1. Travis, well written and I agree that there are certainly this “category” of homeless out there, and frankly I’m not even opposed to helping them, particularly those who are being open about there present unwillingness to conform into “productive” members of society. Where I think people fail to honor Christ, or just fail to be a compassionate fellow human beings, is to refuse charity to anyone begging on a street corner based on their “belief” that everyone in that position is “going to use the money for drugs/alcohol” or perfectly able to get a job.” My own feeling is that it is not my job to judge whether the person is deserving, that God will not inquire into the correctness of which homeless person I helped and be disappointed if I helped an alcoholic buy beer by handing him a dollar. I think if that is what happens to my dollar, that is between the person I gave it to and God.

    • Travis Sharpe says:

      Chris you make a great point. I too help these folks as well. God can do a great work for ANYONE! But I feel strongly that life choices must have a bearing on the level of our charity or we can further a flawed view of personal responsibility. Travis

      • Kalyn Kilgore says:

        Give it all away.
        Live like your savior
        The sparrows don’t worry why should you or I. .
        Thank you for supporting us. We are just like you.
        Some good some not so good.
        OUR CREATOR LOVES. ..

  2. Dana S Terry says:

    When I met you guys at Scott’s church I was touched so deeply by you and your family and the ministry you were working so hard at. I know you face hardships that are never spoken and never seen by anyone here on this earth, but God sees you and loves you. I pray supernatural blessings on you and this ministry. I am pledging to assist your ministry each month.God bless you and I thank you for living God’s love and allowing us to share in it.

  3. Pastor Rick Wilson says:

    Great post Travis. It would seem there is a call for balance between compassion and common sense, helping someone or enabling someone.

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